What’s one of the biggest mistakes you can make it retirement that no one talks about?

Jean and David had been planning their retirement for many years. They both had pensions at their jobs, had saved a lot in their 401k plans and had paid down their mortgage to the point where they almost owned their home. They had friends and hobbies that they both were looking forward spending more time on when they finally stopped working.

However, David had been playing out with his band at various bars and weddings which is probably where he met his new lady friend. Jean found out and after much drama, they got divorced. Now this new reality threw a major monkey wrench in their well thought out retirement plans.

This is the new reality for so many seniors these days. The Pew Research Center reported in 2017 that the divorce rate for those over the age of 50 has doubled since the 1990’s. Further, for those 65 and older, the divorce rate tripled from 1990 to 2015. A late-in-life divorce create massive challenges financially. Why is this happening?

1) Its easy for couples to grow apart. Maybe both people work 40 plus hours or travel for business where there’s overnights involved. Now suddenly these 2 strangers are living together with all this time on their hands. Either they reconnect or maybe they’ve grown apart so much that they don’t really have anything in common anymore. My client Joan lived in the same house with her ex husband for years because neither could afford to move out. He lives on the second floor that has a private entrance and pays her a small amount of rent to cover the expenses. They still live like this now after 20 years of retirement.

2) No more children at home . A lot of retirees start to figure out they were a “couple” based on the lives they created around their children. Once they become “empty nesters” spouses can realize that’s all they had in common and may feel distant.

3) Retirement. “My husband is driving me crazy” is something you may hear from the wife who has been spending time by themselves and her newly retired husband is disrupting that life at home or leisure. The normal routine is not so normal anymore and life is so different now.

4) Health issues. Maybe a spouse’s health has gone downhill and the “in sickness and in health” vow that was taken is not so important anymore. Maybe someone wants to trade in the old model for a newer one. This can lead to lifestyle differences in which someone wants to go out an do things– hiking, biking, tennis etc while the other is ok with being home and relaxing in front of the computer or Netflix.

5) Mid life crisis. We all have regrets in our lives. Now that you are free and have lots of time on your hands in retirement you may not want to spend the next 20 years tethered to someone who makes you unhappy or isn’t experiencing the same life changes you are. Standing looking back at your life you realize you’ve been living for just work or just family and you’ve had enough. The next 20 years are going to be different and you may feel you need to live more for you. So you get a new hairstyle and a convertible because you’re free free free! There may be a cost to that as a late in life divorce can gut your 401K plan or split that rich pension payment you’ve worked hard for. That beach house with the water view you dreamed of living in when you retired is a condo with a view of the highway.

Do most couples plan on divorce? Usually no. But now there’s alimony to pay, your IRA has been divided up, and you have to find an apartment or another place to live. The amount of income you thought you were going to get has been compromised. Not only that where do you spend the holidays? How do your kids feel about this? Maybe they side with one spouse or the other. Harsh reality but very true.

My client David ended up marrying his new lady friend which led to another divorce. Statistics show that second marriages are less stable than first ones. Now he’s got a new job because he needs the income and seems OK but there’s an unhappiness to him that wasn’t there before. Also there’s a lot of his money that isn’t there anymore either.

Jean on the other hand , has devoted herself more to grandchildren and family and seems to feel like the divorce was a good new beginning to the rest of her life. She spends time with her friends more than she did when she was married so sometimes these things work out. She sold the family home and used the money to generate an income for herself . But once again there’s an underlying feeling of loss that neither she or David ever planned for. As their financial advisor I have to admit I never saw it coming either.

Sorry gentle reader not all of these blogs have a happy ending. I have another client named Stuart-always full of sage advice– who is fond of saying “no matter who you marry, you want to make sure they love you just a little more than you love them.” I will sign off with that choice bit of wisdom.

What 3 major congressional gaffs create the shortfalls in Social Security we have now or why Jordache jeans and Jimmy Carter ruined my life

The 1970’s were an interesting decade. Richard Nixon, OPEC, Disco, Jordache jeans, Jimmy Carter and of course the massive legislation that effected everyone’s retirement. The ERISA Act of 1974 which protected defined benefit plans, the invention of IRA’s and the changes to Social Security are great examples about how society at large felt about retirement and what their lifestyle would look like when the paychecks from earned income stop. The Carter administration’s plague of stagflation and high prices on goods and services–especially Jordache jeans– actually helped fix mistakes made by Congress but I don’t want to give away the happy ending.

Particularly overreaching were the increases to the Social Security payments that people were to receive and the cost of living adjustments that Congress passed during this time in question. In June of 1972 Congress overwhelming passed increases and up grades to the program because of a false confidence created by some short term surpluses.

1) Firstly- under the “Social Security Amendment of 1972” approved 20% across the board for 27.8 million people, jacking benefit checks up significantly. In October of 1972 Congress decided to lay out 5 billion to increase benefits for widows and dependents as well as raising the claim checks for lower income people who haven’t paid in for more than 30 years.

2) The second strike was the cost of living idea to combat the ravages of inflation on beneficiaries checks was included in the same bill to be phased in by 1975. A great idea if it had been done correctly! Benefits would be increased based on the Consumer Protection Index if the number was 3% or higher. Also around this time someone got the algebra wrong and it resulted in a major technical gaff in the formula that was used and benefits were bumped up double what they should have been. This formulaic boo-boo is very important to our story.

Suddenly the short term surpluses were fading fast.

In the early years of getting Social Security become the fixture that it is today, it was politically popular for legislation to be suggested in most election years–even years. This past action certainly favored the re-election of some politicians but has potentially had a disasterous effect on the program as we know it now.

Not only did the double indexing inflation whoopsie of 1972 and incumbents raising benefits for votes take the program down, we also had Jimmy Carter double digit inflation and exploding interest rates. Carter was woefully unpopular with the press and the rest of Congress so when high interest rates, huge inflation, high unemployment and slow economic growth, it really set the tone for his administration. Productivity growth dropped to 1% compared to the go-go 1960’s 3.2% number. We all learned a new word: stagflation. You guessed it– Stagflation is the third event that contributed to today’s shortfalls.

3) Stagflation is when there’s high price inflation for goods and services and high interest rates. If there’s high interest rates then the cost of money or borrowing money is expensive then usually prices will drop as there’s not enough capital being borrowed, not enough big ticket items that require borrowing being bought and not enough economic and business activity. If the prices don’t come done as a reaction to the inactivity or less buying of goods and services, things get stagnant and immobile– an economic constipation that effects many industries and millions of people. Because if stagflation, high rates, and high prices are prevalent, businesses get a little uncertain about budgeting, planning, and hiring. This uncertainty leads to corporations and people being stagnant too–not buying things unless they have to or putting off building that big soap production plant in Pittsburg that would have provided 5000 jobs. Those 5000 people would’ve had money in their pockets to buy cars, homes, furniture, college tuitions, or a new pair of Jordache jeans that were so coveted back in those times. Which also means the guy who owns the auto dealership, real estate agents, and local retail stores don’t benefit from consumers having spendable income.

As the title of this article refers, Jordache jeans were touted as very high end, sexy jeans in the late 1970’s. They were designed and invented by a four Israeli brothers who patterned them after some European styles. The suggestive commercials back then and the fact that some of the best looking girls at my school wore them is etched into my psyche and has damaged my self esteem almost irreparably. They were really pretty which made them completely unapproachable already but then add in the price of these designer pants inflated by concurrent economic trends and any chance of a skinny, bespectacled 13 year old boy with a bad haircut wearing a wrinkled shirt from the hamper had no shot at even hello. Not sure I’ve ever recovered fully.

Back to stagflation–Remember the error in the COLA formula which double indexed the inflation increases back in 1972? What do you think happened when inflation numbers were in the teens? Big increases in Social Security payments which further took down the surpluses of the 50’s and 60’s! It was quickly becoming a financial apocalypse for the program as the increases were not sustainable. Jimmy Carter to the rescue! In 1977 Pres Carter and Congress corrected the gaff in the COLA formula and tried to fix the shortfalls by raising the payroll taxes from 2% to 6.15%. Carter said these fixes would make the system sound until 2030. Not so as history tells us but that’s a story for another day.

Will Social Security need more amendments in the future? Probably. Almost absolutely. Let’s hope we learn from the errors of the past. My tormented memories of being rejected(OK I was too intimidated and I never did anything) of upper classman girls wearing designer jeans laughing at me-or so I thought– have been overcome with the wisdom of age. Or so I hope.

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